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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: slantzilla] #2464667
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Originally Posted By slantzilla
Get yourself a great lawyer NOW! Not tomorrow, not next week. Find the most cut throat one you can, preferably a woman.

Trust me on this........




Waste of money and time. Cut and run.

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Originally Posted By Hugh Jorgan
Originally Posted By slantzilla
Get yourself a great lawyer NOW! Not tomorrow, not next week. Find the most cut throat one you can, preferably a woman.

Trust me on this........




Waste of money and time. Cut and run.


My job offers a program for legal services at discount. I'm paying for it, might as well use it.


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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: SattyNoCar] #2464706
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Was the house purchased by the two you or did she own it before the two of you ere married? Either way make sure you go for 50% of everything. So sad that people just don't want to bother making an all effort at making the marriage vows work. Laugh in her face and tell her "See ya in court". Good luck.

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Originally Posted By Satilite73
Originally Posted By Hugh Jorgan
Originally Posted By slantzilla
Get yourself a great lawyer NOW! Not tomorrow, not next week. Find the most cut throat one you can, preferably a woman.

Trust me on this........




Waste of money and time. Cut and run.


My job offers a program for legal services at discount. I'm paying for it, might as well use it.




If there are no kids involved, it is a waste of time. More than likely you will get a crap lawyer that's just going through the motions and a female judge. Your old lady breaks out the crocodile tears in court and it all gets tossed out.

Look at it like this...however bad it turned out in your relationship, it could have been WORSE. Reel in your line and re-cast. Lots of furry clams...er...I mean fish in the pond.

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Originally Posted By Hugh Jorgan
Look at it like this...however bad it turned out in your relationship, it could have been WORSE. Reel in your line and re-cast. Lots of furry clams...er...I mean fish in the pond.



(And make the next time BETTER...

Make the ring finger on your left hand a 'ring-free' zone...

Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: RSNOMO] #2464824
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Originally Posted By RS23U1G
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Look at it like this...however bad it turned out in your relationship, it could have been WORSE. Reel in your line and re-cast. Lots of furry clams...er...I mean fish in the pond.



(And make the next time BETTER...





Yeeeeeeaaaaahhhhh, good luck with that in today's times.
Since you're gonna pay to play, try short-term payment instead of long term. JMHO.

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Originally Posted By Hugh Jorgan

Yeeeeeeaaaaahhhhh, good luck with that in today's times.
Since you're gonna pay to play, try short-term payment instead of long term. JMHO.


I suppose you prefer to rent, not buy.


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Yeeeeeeaaaaahhhhh, good luck with that in today's times.
Since you're gonna pay to play, try short-term payment instead of long term. JMHO.


I suppose you prefer to rent, not buy.



I've bought my fair share. Nothing wrong with a rental.

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Originally Posted By Hugh Jorgan
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Yeeeeeeaaaaahhhhh, good luck with that in today's times.
Since you're gonna pay to play, try short-term payment instead of long term. JMHO.


I suppose you prefer to rent, not buy.



I've bought my fair share. Nothing wrong with a rental.


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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: SattyNoCar] #2465174
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"My job offers a program for legal services at discount. I'm paying for it, might as well use it."



It would be wise to investigate the lawyer. My wife's former job had a legal services plan. We used the legal help on several occasions over the years. The first time we had a great lawyer. The second time was on the purchase of a home. That lawyer was OK. The final time we used the legal service plan was for selling the home. That lawyer was about the definition of worthless!! She was a recent graduate from law school and had the maturity of a 12 year old!

It sounds like your primary risk may be alimony payments. You need to find out how divorce is handled in your state. If you will be paying alimony, you probably should take as many assets as possible when leaving.

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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Hugh Jorgan] #2465196
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Originally Posted By Hugh Jorgan
Originally Posted By feets
Originally Posted By Hugh Jorgan

Yeeeeeeaaaaahhhhh, good luck with that in today's times.
Since you're gonna pay to play, try short-term payment instead of long term. JMHO.


I suppose you prefer to rent, not buy.



I've bought my fair share. Nothing wrong with a rental.


You don't pay a prostitute for sex, you can get that from most any woman. You pay them to go away afterwards.


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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: SattyNoCar] #2465204
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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Guitar Jones] #2465259
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Originally Posted By Guitar Jones
Originally Posted By Hugh Jorgan
Originally Posted By feets
Originally Posted By Hugh Jorgan

Yeeeeeeaaaaahhhhh, good luck with that in today's times.
Since you're gonna pay to play, try short-term payment instead of long term. JMHO.


I suppose you prefer to rent, not buy.



I've bought my fair share. Nothing wrong with a rental.


You don't pay a prostitute for sex, you can get that from most any woman. You pay them to go away afterwards.


You pay a hooker up front, you pay an ex wife at the end.

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Originally Posted By justinp61
you pay an ex wife at the end.



The 'payment plan' regarding a wife starts REAL early...

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Originally Posted By Guitar Jones
Originally Posted By Hugh Jorgan
Originally Posted By feets
Originally Posted By Hugh Jorgan

Yeeeeeeaaaaahhhhh, good luck with that in today's times.
Since you're gonna pay to play, try short-term payment instead of long term. JMHO.


I suppose you prefer to rent, not buy.



I've bought my fair share. Nothing wrong with a rental.


You don't pay a prostitute for sex, you can get that from most any woman. You pay them to go away afterwards.
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Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: amxautox] #2465573
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Johnny: I was worried about you as you have not posted lately. I belive YOU do own half the house and everything else, no matter whose name it is in.
Yeah, it was not about you taking care of your mother. She must have been planning it for a long time.
My ex just was crazy and wanted a life away from me. We are just seperated, but really it has been emotional divorce for many years now.
She still owns half the house. At some point my ex eventually will want to " Cash " out, and I will have to leave my home of 40 years.
Perhaps you could say your wife is mentally unstable and delay the divorce?
Most all women I have seen or known are crazy.
I know you dont have much income. I know where a indoor storage place is for about 85=90.00
Try to keep your head up.
Don;t drink to much.

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Thanks for the words of support yorker. Every once in awhile you are on point. biggrin

I consult with a lawyer tomorrow. With this lawyer, the response I got after speaking briefly on the phone was "I need to see you ASAP, will tomorrow work for you?". shock nervous

Treading carefully here.

I guess my Wife didn't think I'd pursue one as when I told her tonight, she got upset. work

As for drinking, no worries there. I don't drink. Never have, never will (not even socially).

I found warehouse space close to my job where I could not only keep my wagon, but I could work on it too for $250-$300 a month. If I'm gonna throw away money, I'd rather it be somewhere I can at least turn a wrench and not just have it sit.

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Originally Posted By RS23U1G
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you pay an ex wife at the end.



The 'payment plan' regarding a wife starts REAL early...


What was it that P.T. Barnum said?

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I believe that there are many women in today's world that as they are walking down the isle on their wedding day they already have their divorce planned out.

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Originally Posted By Satilite73


I consult with a lawyer tomorrow. With this lawyer, the response I got after speaking briefly on the phone was "I need to see you ASAP, will tomorrow work for you?". shock nervous

Treading carefully here.

I guess my Wife didn't think I'd pursue one as when I told her tonight, she got upset.





Why did you tell her ANYTHING? Confide in your lawyer, not your wife. Your wife is now your opponent, not your team mate.

You can be friendly with her, in a (very) superficial manner. In fact, that may be the best approach. Avoiding her when possible is ideal. You have a lot of stuff to deal with outside of your home. (Seeing your lawyer, opening a new bank account, looking for a place to live, etc. etc.) When you are around her, let her do nearly all of the talking. Being nasty toward her will just make the process worse. Just remember, ANYTHING you tell her may come back to bite you.

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