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#2463047 - 03/08/18 09:50 AM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Satilite73]
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You did nothing wrong.

Sounds like her filing was a blessing.

Get a good lawyer.

Keep the wagon.

Good Luck, your life is going to get better.

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#2463050 - 03/08/18 09:55 AM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Satilite73]
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Sorry to hear things aren't working out. I agree with the others, the storm had nothing to do with it, just an excuse. If anything, she was happier to have her dad there if she was already feeling done with you.

I would squirrel the wagon away somewhere. There's not a lot of value there on paper so to her financially it's small potatoes compared to when you're going to come after her for half the current value of the house.

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#2463059 - 03/08/18 10:10 AM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Satilite73]
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As far as the car, I guess it depends on whether you need the money from the sale of the car to pay bills or not. If not, then I would try to keep it. If you need the money then it`s only a car. Life is more important.

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#2463076 - 03/08/18 10:39 AM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: mopars4ever]
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God made about 3 billion women, so if that one does not work out for you, there are plenty more to choose from!
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#2463090 - 03/08/18 11:04 AM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Satilite73]
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BTW- I have not only heard of, but met an individual whose wife did something similar. He actually got his then wife a court order to pay for all legal proceedings, and wound up getting SUPPORT ON TOP OF THAT....This individual was gainfully employed, the judge saw right through her garbage story and it ended, what I would consider fairly, they had to split everything down the middle once done.

A lot of us have already gone through this, just keep looking ahead, move past the fact you blew all your money on the house, you will get it back eventually. Life is too short, make sure you pay attention to whats going on, remember it, learn from it, apply to the rest of your days. Good job taking care of mom too.

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#2463094 - 03/08/18 11:15 AM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: moparjim79]
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With the wagon, its not so much needing money, its more the fact that I won't have a place to work on it as I'm sure I will need to go into an apartment. I used to rent storage spaces, but with how much rent alone coasts now.... eek.... that's not an option.


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#2463097 - 03/08/18 11:25 AM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: chargervert]
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Originally Posted By chargervert
God made about 3 billion women, so if that one does not work out for you, there are plenty more to choose from!


But as stated above. You only get one Mom. Hang in there and keep the wagon.

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#2463104 - 03/08/18 11:37 AM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: RamblerMan]
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Originally Posted By RamblerMan
Originally Posted By mopars4ever
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I spent my savings on making repairs to the house that went above/beyond insurance money.
Ask for it back as part of the divorce settlement.


Ask for it ALL back, plus 50% of the houses' current value. B*tch gonna PAY.

I'm sorry, but I read that and I can't believe your wife would even think of pulling this. Did she say anything prior to the Hurricane? Did you see any of this coming? If not, then she's being a selfish bint and is probably shtupping somebody on the side. (Women generally don't leave their men unless they have somebody else set up - it's just how they operate). Using the hurricane as an excuse is just low and a prime example of how unethical many women can be. (not all, but a fair percentage)

If you are going to sell your wagon, sell it to a friend for $1 who can store it for you and will let you buy it back when all the ink is dry. Don't waste a cool car over a woman. As you've seen, they're simply not worth it.

While it pains me to hear of a marriage ending and I sympathize with you (no kids involved, are there?) but from the information you've given here.... it's going to be for the better.

Any woman that isn't OK with her man looking after momma ain't no woman at all.




Ill give you $20 for that hunk of junk(not your wife). I can keep it here in sunny Arizona.

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#2463140 - 03/08/18 12:56 PM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: dart4forte]
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You just need to find a place to stash the car.
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#2463145 - 03/08/18 01:03 PM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: chargervert]
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Originally Posted By chargervert
God made about 3 billion women...


And He knows I've tried, but have fallen short of the mark. laugh2
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#2463156 - 03/08/18 01:29 PM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Guitar Jones]
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Yeah, but only about .0005% of those 3 billion are worth a damn... tsk

Besides, you must incorporate the Crazy to Hotness matrix. whistling

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwbKYcBdVyk
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#2463158 - 03/08/18 01:32 PM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Satilite73]
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You enter this world, you're setting yourself up for the fall...

One out of two fail, and more often than not, the man gets jacked...

As has been proven countless times, it can change with the drop of a hat...


Learn from it...


And choose your moves carefully...


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#2463165 - 03/08/18 01:49 PM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Satilite73]
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How long were you married?

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#2463171 - 03/08/18 01:57 PM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Jwilli500]
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#2463193 - 03/08/18 02:35 PM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Rhinodart]
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Originally Posted By Rhinodart


Besides, you must incorporate the Crazy to Hotness matrix. whistling

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwbKYcBdVyk


I was waiting for that to show up... bow
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#2464476 - 03/10/18 07:08 PM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: skicker]
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Originally Posted By skicker
Originally Posted By Rhinodart


Besides, you must incorporate the Crazy to Hotness matrix. whistling

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwbKYcBdVyk


I was waiting for that to show up... bow


I've (obviously) never seen that before, that was great! thumbs

We met in 2003, didn't get serious until 2006 and married on 2009 (delayed by hurricane IKE, maybe the gods were trying to tell me something?). No kids, just two dogs. As much as I love 'em, they are her dogs and I have no desire to keep them.

I've got an idea for something where I can turn this into a big positive for myself... work nervous beer

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#2464487 - 03/10/18 07:45 PM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Satilite73]
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I just read your initial post and not the whole thread.
I think you were within reason given the circumstances and your wife seems to lack understanding of your situation, and this is some proof that she is a somewhat unconsideret and apparently a selfish person.




Edited by f8-4life (03/10/18 07:49 PM)

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#2464570 - 03/10/18 11:49 PM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Rhinodart]
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[quote=Rhinodart]Yeah, but only about .0005% of those 3 billion are worth a damn... tsk




I think your over estimating that percentage...

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#2464607 - 03/11/18 03:28 AM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: Satilite73]
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Get yourself a great lawyer NOW! Not tomorrow, not next week. Find the most cut throat one you can, preferably a woman.

Trust me on this........
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#2464610 - 03/11/18 04:25 AM Re: Been awhile since we had a relationship topic.......... [Re: DirectSubjection]
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Originally Posted By DirectSubjection
You only get one mom


iagree I have two brothers that I fix stuff for from time to time, mostly welding. Shortly after my wife and I married she started complaining about it. After several episodes of her complaining I explained that if she and I divorced they would still be my brothers. It hasn't been mentioned since.

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